i never got to know you really but i feel like i do. Everyone & Dustin talks about you all the time & they all miss you sooo veryy much. Dustin talked about you all tonight and told me sooo many stories about the two of you which I enjoy hearing all the time from every one (: they make me laugh a lot cause yall were both so funny. I really do wish i could have met you because i know you'r such a wonderfull person. i just wanted to say hello (:
Graduation Day!! / Marci Terry (Mom)
Today is your day!! Doesn't seem real that you ARE graduating this year. This has been a tough year without you. I know how exciting a time this is for you. The school wouldn't be standing after a prom with you and Dustin there. LOL I am so proud of you and proud to be your mom. There is nothing better in the world than being a mom through it all. You are my heart and know that I am thinking every minute about you today and everyday. I love you so much and enjoy YOUR DAY...Love Mom Close
It's your birthday!! / Marci Terry (MOM)
I have been thinking of you so much and I hope you got mine and Tanner's messages. We both miss you both so much. You are my world and I thank God everyday for having you both in my life. I love you with all my heart. Take care of each other and keep watching out for us down here. Give my mom a kiss for me and tell her i love her and i have more respect for her than anyone else in this crazy world. She is the best mom ever. I love you mama. I love you all very much and I will hold you in my heart forever. Marci Close
I MISS YOU, / SHELIA FISHER (GRANDMOTHER)
CODY, THIS IS GOING TO BE A VERY BAD WEEK, PLEASE STAY CLOSE TO ALL OF US WE NEED OUR SPECIAL ANGEL SO MUCH. I WILL NEVER FORGET THAT NIGHT, IT SEEMS SO LONG AGO BUT YET JUST LIKE YESTERDAY. NOTHING IS THE SAME ALL OF OUR LIVES CHANGED EVEN THOUGH WE ALL TRY SO HARD TO GO ON. I MISS YOU AND I WONDER WHAT YOU WOULD BE LIKE NOW. I KNOW YOU ARE OK, AND HAVING A WONDERFUL TIME, BUT I STILL MISS YOU SO MUCH. BE WITH YOUR MOM AND DAD AND TANNER, I KNOW THEIR HEART IS BREAKING. I SAW TANNER SATURDAY, HE I JUST LIKE YOU. AND GROWING UP SO FAST. HE STILL MISSES YOU I CAN TELL. CHRIS AND ME WERE TALKING ABOUT YOU YESTERDAY. WE LAUGHED ABOUT SOME OF THE THINGS YOU AND DUSTIN DID WHEN YOU WERE YOUNGER. YOU TWO WERE SOMETHING ELSE. DOUBLE TROUBLE I THINK IS WHAT WE SHOULD HAVE CALLED YOU TWO. I MISS THOSE DAYS SO MUCH. BUT I THANK GOD FOR EACH SECOND I HAD WITH YOU. YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY HEART, YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MY BABY. WISH YOU COULD SEE BROCK AND ABBY THEY ARE DOUBLE TROUBLE TOO. CHAD IS SO FUNNY WITH THEM. HE TRIES TO BE SO TOUGH BUT YOU KNOW CHAD HE ALWAYS GIVES IN TOO. I CAN HEAR YOU LAUGH AT SOME OF THE THINGS THEY DO. I SURE WISH I COULD HAVE CHANGED ALL OF THIS. I ALWAYS THOUGHT MY FAMILY WOULD NEVER CHANGE, BUT IT HAS. WE ALL STILL LOVE EACH OTHER BUT THERE WILL ALWAYS BE AN EMPTY CHAIR AT THE TABLE. WELL HERE I AM CRYING AGAIN AND I KNOW YOU WOULD SAY "GRANDMA SHELIA DONT CRY" . AND THEN YOU WOULD SAY "I LOVE YA" THAT IS WHAT KEEPS ALL OF US GOING IS KNOWING THAT YOU LOVED EACH ONE OF US AND YOU KNEW THAT WE LOVED YOU TOO. HEY TELL JAMIE I SAID HELLO AND I MISS HIM TOO. YOU KNOW WHEN HE WOULD DROP YOU OFF AT MY HOUSE ME AND JAMIE HAD A LOT OF GOOD TIMES. MEMORIES OF YOU AND JAMIE ARE VERY PRECIOUS TO ALL OF US. BE WITH ALL OF US AS YOU ANGEL DAY APPROACHES. SEND US A BIG HUG AND AN I LOVE YOU TOO. BE WITH CHRIS CODY BE HIS SPECIAL ANGEL HE NEEDS YOU SO MUCH THIS LAST YEAR HAS BEEN SO HARD ON HIM. ASK GOD TO REACH DOWN AND HELP HIM GET THROUGH ALL OF THIS. I MISS YOU AND I WANT SO MUCH TO SEE YOU SOME DAY. I WILL LOVE YOU FOREVER AND YOU MEMORIES WILL ALWAYS BE PRECIOUS TO ME. HUGS AND KISSES! LOVE YA GRANDMA SHELIA Close
hey buddy / Robin Morgan (Friend)
I just wanted to talk to you for a minute. I know some people say this is good therapy but if it is the only thing I can do to get things off my mind and if somehow it does reach you then I will continue to do it. I miss you so much! Today was a really hard day for Justin. He just realized he is the same age you were and he feels so lost. He is having a hard time and I have tried to talk to him because he remembers everything about you. He doesn't understand and he wants to know why and with him now reaching that age it makes me feel so so much about what or how your mom can get through the days. Jonathan also remembers but he thinks that just being with Tanner is enough for him. All he wants to do everyday is be with him. Justin does too but he always talks about you and now since it is this time of year he has started asking lots of questions and misses you and Tanner since we moved and don't get to go there as much. He is trying to understand but it's hard. I don't understand myself so how can I tell him how to feel or react to things. I know everyone that knew you has a hard time and we all deal with it different ways. SO just let everybody feel you around them especially your parents and you know your mom needs that special touch only you can give. Watch over everybody and all I know to tell the boys is that they will see you one day again and it will be a happy time. Right now I hate this time of year. There was a party the boys went to and me or Justin just couldn't have a good time. That is how I knew something was wrong. He was all around his friends but seemed like his mind was a million miles away. It was you he was thinking about. We love and miss you so much Cody!! Close
My baby / Marci Terry (Mom)
I sit at this computer looking at pictures of you and i laugh and cry all at the same time. I can't sit here and feel sorry for myself because i thank God so much that you were my baby. I miss you with every breath that i take and i love you with all of my heart. Please continue to watch over us all. I love it when i feel you around. There's just this feeling i get and i know you are there. Thank you for that Cody. Tanner misses you so much. He has had some really hard times. We have had lots and lots and lots of long talks about you. He is just like you, he forgets nothing. He remembers every single detail about you and i know he always will. You are his one and only big brother and i know its hard for him so please be there for him and watch over him. I do the best i can but theres just something about a big brother. I love you so much. Big hugs and kisses from me and Tanner. Give mick mick a "big squeeze" as you use to say from all of us. Don't forget Jamie. He's the best person in the world and i will never ever forget him. Tell him i will always miss him. Tell Blake hey from us all and you too stay buddies. Love you so much.. Mom Close
A brief moment of darkness was all that I knew, before Heaven's Gate came into my view. Loved ones and friends I had missed for many years, welcomed me with open arms and many happy tears. All the hurt, fear, and pain that I have ever known, is gone from my life, I am finally home. I gazed upon the Lord's sweet smiling face, and for the first time in my life I knew and felt His grace. I know that you miss me, but please dry your eyes. I will always be watching and loving you from my new home in the sky. A cool breeze on your face, a touch of light rain, I will send as a reminder that we will be united again. Life on earth is but one brief moment in time, I am finally home, Eternity is mine.
Hey Cody! Everytime i look at this website it brings back all the good times that we had. I smile and i cry all at the same time. It does hurt so bad. I can't even put it into words how much it hurts not having you here. I am so thankful for all the times that we had. I even miss the arguments. LOL I would give up everything in the world just to be able to pick at you, to hug you, talk to you, to see you, or just say hi and i love you. I know that i will one day and that day i am looking forward to. I miss you and can't wait to see you again one day. This time of the year is extremely hard. I want you here to celebrate Christmas with your family like it should be. The fact that you are not here in person breaks my heart in a million pieces. I know you are here in spirit and you are watching over us along with Jamie and Mick Mick. I love ya'll so much and just know that i am thinking about you all each and everyday and i miss you so much. You will always be with me in my heart and on my mind. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH and Merry Christmas baby!
I was just thinking / Robin Morgan (MY Buddy )Read >>
I was just thinking / Robin Morgan (MY Buddy )
Cody, As you know from watching over us all the time. This part of the year is always the worst for your family and friends. You were such a good kid with such a kind heart that we can still feel you here with us today. I think of yall every single day and I still struggle so much with how things have happened in your short sweet life. I don't understand it but I know it was all in God's will. They say that when it is your time it is your time...but that is it...I WISH so bad it hadn't of been your time. I don't wish this on anyone else. I know you are in a better place and there is going to be a party like no other there for Christmas. You are with Jesus and that is the greatest thing of all. You have already concurred death and you are sitting at the table with Jesus or walking around with Jamie and Mik Mik...I bet she has found Elvis by now and sang with him and has had you laugh so much but not enough for you to have tears roll down your face...for the Bible says there are no tears in heaven...those are only for use down here and you know I have shed them everyday here. I miss you so much Justin is almost the same age you were. He will be 12 and I can't imagine how much yall would have gotten along. He talks about you all the time and how much fun you and him and Dustin had swimming and playing in the hot tub. Jonathan reminds me so much of you. Jordan was not old enough to know you while you were here but she knows you by looking at the two tons of pictures that I have showed her. We go through this life not knowing what we will find. The day that me and your mom found each other in school I would have never guessed that things would be the way they are now. NEVER in a million years. I never thought I would be going by your house to bring you stuff and try to spoil you but you know what?? You were already spoiled and no one could of asked for a better kid than you are Cody. You know you have a piece of my heart there with you. No matter how tough things get down here I just look to heaven and think....ok I could use a hug right now....and it is like I can feel it. I watch things on tv all the time about those people that say they can communicate with people and you know what I used to want to go to one to help get some closure for what happened. I wanted to know how this could of happened to such a sweet and beautiful kid like you. I never got to say goodbye......and then I realized it...it hit me.....we didn't need to say goodbye because we will be there together one day. You only say goodbye when you wont see that person again and I WILL SEE YOU. I don't want closure I want to keep my lines open up to you all the time. I can feel you there with me in times I need it and when Tanner spent the night..Cody it is like looking at you all over again. I know you are so proud of him. He is a hoot! Friends are the greatest things to have but you are more than that to me you know you are always family. Keep watch over everybody buddy. I will talk to you later. I love and miss you.......esp. when I call your mom's house and you used to answer the phone and bug your mom asking to come play.....now I hear Tanner doing the same thing. If I could only bring you back I would Cody but you are in a much better place and I am just being jealous of wanting you here with your family. Help us all to learn to forgive because that is what I know you would want us to do. It is just toooo hard to do right now. It is something I have got to work hard on. Keep watch! Love you!
merry christmas / SHELIA FISHER (grandmother)
cody, as christmas gets closer i find myself thinking and remembering so much. last night i watched videos of christmas when u were still with us. i wonder each day what u would be like now. when i shop i find so many things that u would have liked, and it seems so strange that i cant buy them for u. you would be so proud of tanner he is so much like u and the older he gets the more like u he becomes. dustin still misses u, u were his best bud and more than a cousin to him, u were a pair. chris talks about u and has such good memories of times he had with u. sometimes it is so hard to understand why god chose to take u from us, but i know to be chosen is such a blessing for u. i know someday u and i will celebrate christmas together again, and it will be so great. i thank god each day for the time we had u. u were a real pleasure to me. i know christmas will me so special for u and blake and i hope it is wonderful. there will always be part of my heart missing, but i know right where it is. cody u hold it in your hands. be with us for the holidays give us strenght to carry on the traditions and always know that u are in our hearts and on our mind we all love and miss u so much. love always grandma shelia Close
thinking of you / Yvonne Fisher (Aunt)
Hey Cody, just wanted to say hi and to tell you how much I miss you. You know October is a hard month for all of us so please help us get through this month. You know that I would give anything to have you back here with us. They say time heals but it will be 3 years next week and it still feels like it was yesterday when the angels came to take you home. The anger is still within my heart and I've tried and Cody I've really tried to not feel this way. Your were so young and just starting your life and it makes me mad that you are not here to grow up and do all the things that you were suppose to do. Dustin talks about you and all the things that yall use to do together and I can still see the hurt in his eyes everytime your name is mentioned. We all miss you like crazy!! And your brother Tanner, he is the spittin image of you now. His face, his laugh and even his expressions, its almost scary at times. He's a little sweetheart and you would be so proud of him. He's growing up so fast and getting taller everyday. I think he's gonna be as tall as Dustin if he keeps this up. LOL Just watch over all of us Cody, especially your mom, dad and Tanner right now because I know they are hurting so much inside. I know how I feel and the pain is unbearable at times so I cant imagine how they feel. Even though your weren't my own child I felt like your were. You know when people ask Dustin if he has any brothers or sisters he will tell them he has two brothers Cody and Tanner, so that tell you how much you are loved sweetie. Dustin watches over Tanner like a brother and he will always be there for him just like you would have wanted it. Well I'm gonna go for now but know that we love and miss you every single day and you will never ever be forgotten. I love you so much Cody! Tell Mick Mick, Jamie, Grandmother, Grandaddy and Blake that we all love them and miss them so much. Yall take care of each other up there and watch over us every day. I'll talk to you again soon....love you bunches Cody....bye bye!!!
i miss u so much / Shelia Fisher (grandmother)Read >>
i miss u so much / Shelia Fisher (grandmother)
cody, not a day goes by that i dont think of u, and jamie, i miss u so much and this month is really hard. we have had such a hard time with chris and his accident, sometimes i just dont understand why we have had to face so much heartache. i thank god that i still have chris and i wish u were here with us too. papaw can hardly talk about you he cries every time we are all together, and chris still has a very hard time with your being gone. i know only time will ease the heartache that each one of your family feels. i sometimes get to the anger point and then i think about how wonderful heaven must be, and how happy you must be, and i feel ashamed for being so selfish not to want u to be in heaven but here with us.we really had some good times, and i miss them so much, i can still hear u say i love u and tanner reminds me of u so much. be close to your mom and dad as the anniversary of your death approaches, spread your angel wings and keep us all close. we sure need our special angel to be near right now. i love and miss u so much and will forever keep your memory alive. better go for now, be good and tell blake hello for us to love u bunches grandma shelia Close
I miss you / Jeana Flanagan (teacher)
Cody, Each day when I look into Tanner's face I remember you and how your smile brightened my day when you were in my class. Tanner is a lot like you---he makes my days---he has that same sweet smile and personality. You would be really proud of Tanner. I miss you Cody. Nickolas really misses you---he talks of you often. You will never be forgotten by either of us---you will always have a place in our hearts. Close
sending you some comforting thoughtsF / Helen Flissikowski (none/passerby)Read >>
sending you some comforting thoughtsF / Helen Flissikowski (none/passerby)
From the tree of life Each leaf must fall The green the gold The greatest the small, Each one in GOD'S, Own time he'll call, With perfect love, HE will gather allClose
My Heart / Marci Fountain (MOM)
Cody, I think of you everyday and smile. I have so much of you to hang onto and i am so thankful for that. We shared so much and I so thankful that we were so close. I miss our talks so much. I miss those teddy bear hugs. I miss you measuring yourself to me everyday saying "i almost got ya." I miss EVERYTHING about you. You are such a great kid and i could never be prouder than i am to say i am your mom. You mean the world to me. Without you and Tanner i have no purpose. Being a mom to you and Tanner is what i am here to do. I am not perfect but i give it all i got. Everything in my life i do for you and for Tanner. You are my heart and i love and miss you so much. I wish every day that i could have you back. I would give up my life to have you back here. I WILL be with you again one day. I will be able to hold you in my arms again and tell you that i love you one day. I hold on to the thought of being with you again. I love you so much Cody! I have so much hurt and anger still inside and its still hard and i am sure it always will be. I am trying to let go of the reasoning for what happened but its very hard to do. I can't forgive Nicky Williams for what he done to you and Jamie. I try really hard and i am still trying to this day but its hard to forgive selfishness. I know that GOD wanted you and Jamie for a reason but it doesn't take it away. I know that its suppose to be right to forgive and not hold on to the anger but i just can't. I don't know how he lives with himself. I couldn't. I pray everyday for strength and i know thats the only reason i am getting along each day. It's so hard without you but you are my heart and i will see you again one day. I will NEVER EVER forget you. I will see to it that yours and Jamie's memories will always be alive. I know in my heart and in Tanner's. We love and miss you so much....love YOUR PROUD MOM Close
HEY cody / Felicia Jackson (friend)
hey cody........... i miss you sooo much. you and blake both... i went over to your aunts friday night all i could think about is how much i missed you and blake! i acted a fool at her house with the ab lounge..lol.. it still feels funny to go to a football game and not see you or blake.. i see dustin, skipy, andrew, and everyone else but... no you no blake.. the football games are gettin boring now... but i guess i will ttyl LOVE YOU tell blake i said hi and I LOVE HIM TOO... -felicia- Close
Thinking of you dear Cody and your loving family / Teri Drebit (Angel Mom Of Jaime) (someone who cares )Read >>
Thinking of you dear Cody and your loving family / Teri Drebit (Angel Mom Of Jaime) (someone who cares )
miss u my angel / Shelia Fisher (grandmother)Read >>
miss u my angel / Shelia Fisher (grandmother)
hey cody, i sure do need a big bear hug, u know the kind u always gave me. i havent been here lately because uncle chris had a bad accident and we spent six weeks at the hospital with him. he wrecked his bike and the doctor had to amputate his arm. cody he needs so much help now just ask god to be with him. u know after we lost u i thought nothing could ever hurt so bad again, but it did when i thought i might loose chris too, i just thought of your mom and dad and how they get througheach day. i know how much i miss u and i wish i could change so much. i never sat there a day with chris that i didnt think of u or talk about u. even though i wasnt here u were still in my heart and on my mind. u always will be, and i just cant believe u arent here with us. dustin has become such a wonderful young man, and i know u would be too, things werent supposed to be this way, but i know u have the most wonderful ball field to play on and the grass is always green and no rain out games, and i know u and blake are the best players in heaven. hit one out for me ok, i love u so much, and i will always miss u, everyday of my life. be by my side now cause i sure need an angel to help me with chris's and to help him learn to live again better go for now i love u so much and miss u that much too. love always grandma shelia Close
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